By Alex Marshall, Editor, Spotlight on the Region
Bill Bishop in his book The Big Sort (Houghton 2008), postulates that Americans have begun sorting themselves out into neighborhoods, regions and cities by politics and lifestyle.
Perhaps this explains why I, a child of the suburbs but an urban dweller now for almost all my adult life, know almost no one who lives in the classic cul-de-sac suburb, even though obviously huge numbers of Americans do so.
Which is why it's good to have in-laws. You don't choose them, and so they introduce you to alternate lifestyles. Such as living in the suburbs.
As I write this, I'm visiting my spouse's sister and her family. About the same age as my wife and me and with young children like us, they live in a 15-year-old Maryland subdivision built about halfway between Washington DC and Baltimore. Although only about 10 miles from the state capital of Annapolis, their subdivision sits in a grove of woods and has large homes on large lots placed amid maple trees. One could be in the country. Sort of.
So distant am I from such places that being here is like visiting a foreign country. I am getting an upfront look at the pleasures and pains of suburbia, both from a personal and a public policy perspective. The issue here is Sprawl of course. Although the Tri-state region has some of the densest cities in the country, it also wrestles with unplanned and low-density growth, so perhaps the example of my in-laws can be instructive.
First with the pleasures.
My in-laws' two-story home with full basement has 3000 square feet. Our entire Brooklyn apartment would fit inside their kitchen and accompanying den. Entering this abode, my body let out a huge sigh of relief in the presence of so much space. Goodbye for a while to cramped apartment life.
Then there is the backyard. Yesterday our five-year-old son and his five-year-old cousin occupied themselves for hours there, exploring the woods and making little rivers with a backyard hose.
But then there are the downsides, both from a personal and public perspective. The homes here lack city water and sewage. Although I'm told sometimes wells and septic tanks last forever, I'm also aware of many cases where cities have had to step in and supply services to stop the pollution of groundwater. Then there's teeth worries. My sister-in-law gives her kids fluoride treatments because well water has no fluoride in it. She wonders whether their teeth will really end up strong and cavity resistant.
Isolation of all types is a real concern. Our first night here I offered to go for a drive and buy a six-pack of beer or a bottle of wine for dinner, which they were a bit low on. They both shook their heads and said essentially there was nowhere remotely close enough to get to quickly, even by car. Sparked by this interchange, I put their address into "Walk Score," a nifty Internet application that measures the walkability of places. Their neighborhood measured a big fat 2 out of 100 for the proximity of stores, restaurants, parks, libraries, movie theaters, drug stores etc. By comparison, my street in Prospect Heights in Brooklyn scored a 97, a "walker's paradise."
Whatever its drawbacks, my in-laws love their new home, and clearly their choice does not have to be everyone's. Overall, would it be better if more Americans lived in compact places rather than those like my in-laws? I think so, but there is also room in this world for many lifestyles. I did wonder how this suburb fit in with the noted Smart Growth policies of former Gov. Parris Glendening, who was governor from 1995 to 2003. But that's a conversation for another day. I've got to run now and go play with the kids in the backyard.













@RegionalPlan
Not to bum you out on your next visit, but...
Your in-laws worries about lack of fluoride in well water is like a smoker with lung cancer complaining about the color of the cigarette pack. First, these people who wish for fluoride in the well water and everyone on public water supply should not have their water purveyor dispensing prophylactic dental medications anyway. Toothpaste is definitely the way to go. Second, unless they are testing their well water at least monthly, they are running a grave potential danger to their families health, even with whole house filtration. Concentrated toxic backwash from water filtration units ends up in the cesspools and then heads back toward the well screen along with everything else on the sprawling neighborhood lawns.
Dear Alex
I enjoyed your story but am concerned about the children being given fluoride tablets.
1) Has the well water been tested for fluoride content? If not, there might be F in it already and overdosing can cause serious damage to teeth. (Search for 'dental fluorosis' on here www.FluorideAction.net
2) I used to give my children F tablets. Then I discovered how harmful it can be. (www.FluorideAction.net).
3) Please please use the following link and view the videoed discussion between the pysician-journalist (Dr Joseph Mercola) and the Emeritus Professor of Chemistry (Dr Paul Connett) about why fluoridation should end soon http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/07/03/paul-connett-interview.aspx
After viewing this article, then Googling 'fluoride' and doing some fluoride research for yourself, you will be as concerned as I am about your relatives' children being given a daily dose of an accumulative poison that could be lowering their IQs, and causing damage to their teeth, bones, brains and kidneys.
Please take this message seriously and be sure to read the warning on your fluoride toothpaste packet (if you purchase toothpaste in the US) because it should, by law, carry a warning to not use more than a pea-size amount for children and to contact a poison control centre or a professional person right away if more is swallowed than is needed to clean teeth. That's how poisonous fluoride is.
Post script for Alex:
Recent Annual Drinking Water Reports for Jacksonville Texas and Jacksonville NC list, respectively, the source of fluoride that is added to their water supplies as 'Discharge from fertilizer and aluminimum manufacturing' and 'Discharge from fertilizer and aluminum factories'.
Now, here, in my country, 'Fluoride discharges from aluminium smelting and brick manufacturing' have resulted recently in dozens of starving and pain-ridden kangaroos having to be killed (more are expected to die).
Please Google 'Ministry of not so funny walks' to
1) view photographs of gross bone deformities in 2 children from naturally-occurring fluoride (probably coupled with poor nutrition;
2) note that approximately 60 million people in India live painful and crippled lives from the natural fluoride in their drinking water (again, probably coupled with poor nutrition) and
3) note (near the end of the article) that about 17% of the people in one Indian village near Delhi suffer from the bent bones of skeletal fluorosis from drinking water with about 0.6 to 1.7 parts per million fluoride.
The higher end of that range is frequently drunk by people in the US and NO ONE, just NO ONE, is monitoring people's health to see if the multitude of arthritis in all its forms, and many other complaints (one being hypothyroidism) is being caused by fluoride.
Do please feel free to contact me.